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Simple, Softer, and Slower

Simple Life, Softer Life, Slower Life

Have you ever felt a longing, a nudge, or even a flat-out desire to live a simpler life?
Or maybe just a softer or slower one?

I don’t just mean a life with less stress or fewer responsibilities. I mean a completely different outlook on life. One where you wake up with a purpose in mind, confident that no matter what comes your way, you’ll still be living that purpose.

A simple life where you know you’re becoming the best version of yourself—your higher self.

The Reality of Daily Life

For most of us, daily life is far from that. Honestly? It feels more like a fairy tale.

We know all the “right” things to do:

  • Eat healthy

  • Exercise

  • Keep the home running

  • Make our partner happy

  • Keep the kids fed and alive

All the things we do to make life flow—just enough to survive the day-to-day.

We tell ourselves, “Tomorrow it will be better. Tomorrow I’ll rest.”

But then tomorrow comes… and it’s the same fast, hard, confusing jumble of survival that yesterday was.

The Question That Lingers

Don’t get me wrong—there is plenty to love in the chaos.
But eventually, that nudge, that desire, that little whisper asks:

“Is this really how it’s supposed to be?”

I love my life… but I don’t like my life.

That’s where it hit me, nearing 40.

  • I loved my kids.

  • I was in college advancing my degree.

  • I was beginning an amazing relationship with my now husband.

And yet, I still felt the pull toward a different kind of life.
One that honored who I was becoming.
One not lived out of fear of what others might think.

Awakening to a New Way

Some would call it a midlife crisis. Some questioned my sanity.
Some people bowed out—gracefully or not so gracefully.

But others extended a hand and stood with me in love and understanding.

I don’t see it as a crisis.
For me, it was an awakening.

An awakening into a life I could love and like.
A chance to truly embrace myself—my higher self—and keep becoming.

Where You Might Be

Maybe you found this clarity early in life.
Maybe, like me, you had to walk through the chaos first.

Maybe you:

  • Feel the nudge but push it away, telling yourself, “This life is enough.”

  • Tiptoe around it, dabbling like you’re testing the water but not ready to dive in.

Here’s the truth: no matter where you are—young or old, busy or slow, calm or chaotic—listening to that little voice only brings more fulfillment, peace, and satisfaction.

Always Keep Becoming

Life doesn’t have to be just survival.
It can be simple.
It can be softer.
It can be slower.

And it all begins with listening to that inner nudge.

Always keep becoming.

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Soul Compass Collective: Holding Space for Transformation

It all begins with a thought.

Healing From Within

At Soul Compass Collective, we believe one of the most powerful gifts you can receive is the experience of being deeply heard. In a world that rushes to fix, judge, or offer quick solutions, there’s something profoundly healing about having someone sit with you—without judgment, without an agenda—just to hold space while you untangle what’s really going on inside.

That’s the essence of coaching. It’s not about telling you who you should be or what you should do. It’s about helping you slow down, listen inward, and choose—consciously—what you want to carry forward and what you’re ready to set down.

The Midwife Analogy: Why Coaching Isn’t About Fixing You

Think of your transformation like bringing something new into the world. A coach is like a midwife—there to guide, support, encourage, and help you breathe through the hardest moments. But here’s the truth: the coach can’t do the contractions for you.

Whether you’re male or female, that imagery holds. Every contraction, every wave of discomfort, represents the inner work you do—releasing an old belief, facing a fear, setting a boundary, or finally choosing yourself. The coach is right there, steady and present, reminding you of your strength when you forget it. But only you can feel the squeeze, and only you can deliver the outcome that belongs to you.

Choosing What You Carry, Choosing What You Release

In coaching, you get to decide what stays and what goes. Maybe you’re carrying stories of unworthiness, patterns that keep you small, or expectations that were never yours to begin with. Coaching isn’t about stripping you bare; it’s about helping you notice those pieces and decide—do I keep this, or is it time to let it go?

The process is deeply personal. Some clients find freedom in finally voicing truths they’ve held back for years. Others discover that what once felt like a weakness is actually a hidden strength. With each step, the compass begins to point a little more clearly toward your truth.

Why Soul Compass Collective Exists

I built Soul Compass Collective because I know what it feels like to lose your bearings, to wonder who you are when the roles you’ve carried for years begin to shift. And I also know the power of finding direction again—not because someone told me where to go, but because I learned how to listen to myself.

This is what I offer my clients: a space of safety and support where your voice leads. You’ll be reminded that you are not broken, that your story is still being written, and that your compass—the one inside you—already knows the way.

Direction for your soul. Support for your healing.
That’s more than a tagline—it’s the heartbeat of Soul Compass Collective.

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